Caught in the riptide

When caught in a riptide, it's advised not to fight the powerful current. Even strong swimmers can't overcome it. Instead, you should conserve energy until the tide weakens, then swim perpendicular to shore.

Life presents similar moments when we face forces beyond our control. Like enduring an abusive relationship – it’s often better not to confront the abuser in the heat of the moment. Tread water by finding support until you can safely exit. Or coping with workplace bullying – directly facing the bully could worsen matters. Document incidents, lean on coworkers, and watch for opportunities to leave for better prospects.

Other challenging "currents" include battling a legal opponent with far greater resources, or recovering from illness. There may be times when progress feels impossible no matter how hard you strain.

The key is persevering through difficulties using available supports while awaiting chances to swim perpendicular toward safer waters. With patience and wisdom, the stormy present need not last forever. Riptides eventually weaken entirely. Similar currents in life ease up too, allowing you to move toward relief. Staying afloat through the chaos lets you emerge stronger for the challenges faced and overcome.

So in times when you feel caught in a riptide in life, don't fight needlessly against forces larger than yourself. Tread water, brighten your corner, and keep sight of shores unseen.

This too shall pass.